I would like to write down some thoughts, today, on two matters which are often a subject of confusion: simple living and poor living. Where do we draw the line?
Generally speaking, I think the difference can be pointed in the way that living simply is living well, even when it is done within the scope of the same budget which draws another family into the pit of poverty.
In many ways, this is also a matter of attitude. It is possible to have an income which could provide for normal life – good food, reasonable housing, proper healthcare, etc – and yet be dissatisfied and feel poor, if one thinks oneself entitled to all sorts of fancy things which cannot be afforded on that small income. Or worse, the modest but steady financial resources are squandered on luxuries which “must” be had, and not much is left for the true necessities.
Simple living, on the other hand, is voluntarily and cheerfully going without things you know you don’t really need – either foregoing them completely or taking it as a challenge to make the best of all you can have right now.
For example, if right now your budget prescribes that you go without new clothes, you can either feel “poor” (or worse, buy that which you cannot afford) or you can take it up as a challenge to go through your closets and look for things you have forgotten about, and how they can be combined with what you do have – or look through second-hand shops to look for items in excellent condition, or learn to sew, etc.
Simple living is making small steps towards sustainability – cooking and making what you can from scratch, growing some of your own food and/or swapping with families who are doing so. It’s not that you “can’t afford to buy”, but you are delighting in the blessings of abundant health, resourcefulness, and an easier burden on your budget.
Simple living is making the best of all the pleasures of life which cost nothing or next to nothing. If you can’t afford costly travel abroad and staying in hotels, you might feel poor and deprived; or you can put your effort into vigorous, extensive exploration of the area near your home, and it is almost certain you will make fascinating discoveries of wonderful spots you haven’t visited yet.
Simple living is shedding the time-consuming pursuits which stand between us and what is truly important to us.
Poverty is deprivation, while simple living is fullness of beauty in everything that is available to us. No one wants to be poor, but many can and do find true delight in simple living.